For the last five years I have been slowly but surely making myself comfortable with the idea of a urostomy. I like to think of it as controlling what you can when things are out of control...others might call it obsessive...the words control freak have definatly been thrown around. But I know that life is full of things you can't control and it is pointless to try, the only thing that you can always control is how you react to the things that are happening to you. I wanted this to make me, not break me.
